Guest Bloggers: Alex and Suze
Alex and Suze created their first blog in March 2005 to talk about their sex lives, sexuality and explore their innate inquisitiveness about human sensuality. Since then a very personal, erotic and sexy blog has diversified and spawned the world renown sex toy review website; SexToysBuzz.
They now have 10 years of experience in the sensual world that has seen the couple create thousands of articles on sexuality, hundreds of sex toy reviews and publication in the mainstream media and adult industry press. This gives them unparalleled experience in the sex toy industry and the ability to share their knowledge about the testing and use of sex toys both as individuals and as a couple.
Alex and Suze will be mingling with the crowds at Sexhibition this summer but until then you can read their guides on buying and using sex toys right here on the Sexhibition website.
Ditch The Chocolates! The Top 5 Valentines Sex Toys For Couples!
Historically Valentines top 5 toy listings have been female orientated, concentrating solely on her pleasure. I’m guilty of this too, having blogged for many years about adult toys.
I also decided quite a while ago that chocolates were every bit as disappointing on Valentine’s Day as a quick fuck. Yes, I did say that, let me explain myself.
You can quite easily consume a box of chocolates in an evening or if you put your mind to it a couple of days. 🙂 As for toys…well they last that little bit longer and can give you more than one indulgent high.
So for this coming Valentines I thought we would not only focus on an indulgence which will satisfy over and over again,and you can share as a couple.
Toys are the perfect embellishment for a rich and fulfilling sex life. As the saying goes from a famous sex toy retailer “Couples Who Play Together Stay Together”. Whilst this statement may be a little simplified, it’s essentially true.
So here are my Top 5 Couples Toys, I’ve tried to keep my choices varied and within most people’s budget.
Chocolate Body Paint
Soooo, if you do have to include chocolate in your romantic Valentine’s play then why not indulge yourself with some chocolate body paint. Widely available online in tins, tubes, pens and other forms. You can write your dirty thoughts on each other’s bodies and then lick them away before anyone sees your wildest fantasies. That is unless you want that special someone to know. 😉
Good sex starts with both parties being relaxed and comfortable with each other. So what better way to get to know each other intimately than giving each other a massage. Oils can be purchased quite easily and doesn’t necessarily involve either of you visiting a “Sex Shop” as you can now purchase these from most high street beauty emporiums.
But if you want to add a little more kink to your intimacy why not try a hot wax massage candle. But don’t try using a normal candle for this as you are liable to hurt yourself as the wax in specially created massage candles burns at a much lower temperature than conventional candles. Always read the instructions and if you find that your skin gets irritated stop using them immediately.
These little fellas come in all shapes and sizes to fit every budget and are often overlooked because they aren’t phallic or intended for internal use. However, they are such a versatile addition to your bedroom fun.
Finger vibes normally offer a range of speeds & vibration patterns. And as with all adult toys vary tremendously in performance so shop around. You don’t have to settle for the dated versions which offer a few speeds and very little else.
As for the fun you can have…here’s just a few examples.
Try exploring each other’s bodies and erogenous zones. A tease on the back of the knee or a quick buzz on the nipple. And for him, try holding the vibe between his legs, between his dick and his anus. You will drive him wild!
Bondage & Restraint
I can’t do a top 5 without mentioning the Grey effect. It’s been on the lips (no pun intended) of women of all ages for some time now and isn’t going away any time soon. This film opened up people’s minds to a previously unspoken area of sexual pleasure.
Bondage isn’t all whips and chains… although it can be … it has a more sensual side. Sensory deprivation via blindfolding and or restraint can be so exciting. And can also be achieved with very little outlay, at least in the first instance. You can use scarfs, belts and ties for an instant restraint then go on to purchase all manner of kink should it be your thing. 😉
For my final suggestion I thought it would be good to bring a little buzz back in to both your lives. Equally these feel as good wrapped around a strap-on or dildo.
The mutual enjoyment from getting down and dirty with a good cock ring is mega! Both of you get a kick back at the same time as penetration. What could be better than an enhanced fuck?
You can get cock rings with multiple vibration settings both rechargeable and battery operated and prices vary but you must “Put A Ring On It”. 😉